Form: this is a test

This is a test. Only a test. Only?!?!?! So like, it's not a real disaster, right? That's what they are getting at? But, then, why not call it a practice? For those of us not involved in the non-school program saying that something is a test strikes fear into the hearts of child-dom. (I am closing in on 34, anyone under 20 is a child now). I like the idea of being prepared.
So, who am I? What defines me, or more specifically, what to I WANT to define me. I want to be

1. A loving, caring, laughing, accepting wife
2. A loving, caring, laughing, accepting mother
   
3. Ditto to the above friend, sister, daughter, etc.
4. Creative/Fruitful, blooming, productive
   
5. Fun-loving/Youthful/Joyful
6. Healthy
7. Appreciator of uplifting music
8. Organized
9. Good at prioritizing
   
10. Thrifty
11. Seeker of knowledge/teacher
    
12. A voracious reader
    
13. Service-Oriented
14. Someone who consecrates my time and choices to God's purposes